Rodney is a comic freak since his teenage days until today. He won’t even bother spending thousands for them. Now, he was asking me a while ago to buy the latest issues for him. I said I won’t… not because I don’t want to grant his leisure, but because we need to set our priorities for us to execute our plans properly.
I know that we can’t easily say “no” to our leisures, but I’m just too scared not to be with him the soonest possible time. If he will continue to be this kind of a comic freak, he won’t be able to save enough money for my Dubai VISA and flight expenses, which he promised me before he left. I should be with him already in Dubai in 6 months time. That’s our goal.
I’m actually cutting my expenses off just to help him save. I’m even trying to engage in sidelines to earn more. Am I too hard on him? Should I let him continue with his leisure? What about our dreams?
Honestly, I’m scared… really really scared of not seeing him again ever. I love him very much. God knows. Sigh.
From what i know, mart is really cutting off things (including food) to save, coincidental to his wanting to become really sexy (as a surprise/bonus to rodney when they finally meet and be together – sorry,nabuko ko na…)..hehehehe…but rodney is a collector, i think you guys are thinking and reasoning from two different sides. A collector will do everything they can to get what they are collecting coz for them that’s worth a fortune….on Mart side naman, its hard to let go of money that he triftly saved – for one thing he trully wanted to do-(go to dubai), specially if he skipped meal or the fact that he even computes first before buying something….but rodney said it well in his message, sya ang bahala and that he can take mart soon…means budget permits..taking his word for it…so go..collect….
Wow, your partner is very lucky to have you. You are young and yet so mature. I can understand your sentiment. I would’ve done the same thing if I was in your shoes. I know that he can take care of everything financially, but it is still different if I can contribute somewhat. Iba ang feeling eh.
Yknow Martin, you are made for a long-term relationship. You are so responsible. Your partner is very lucky to have you.
Thanks Willow. I just hope he would realize that. Sigh.
take it easy, dude! your dreams will come true if they are meant to be so. no amount of comic issues will keep it from coming true.